Monday, 25 May 2015
A girl’s heart is tender, soft and delicate. They are jewels, pearls and affectionate. They are also arrogant, rude and rough when you step on their toes. Just like a flowers they need care, the sun and water to make them happy and grow in love. Show them the way-they will walk majestically, a route to the skies where stars shineth – they will fly. Do not walk in front of her-she will walk away, do not walk behind her she will mislead you, walk by her side- she will hold your arms. That’s an island of affection.
Boys you over speed, like an F1 car, slow down for if you overtake her on chat you will crash her heart. Men you overspend, she will gallop the gifts and go for the simple care and flowers delivered to her window every morning, so be humble and simple, they love it- be yourself. She adds you on face book, be yourself and natural, she adds you on skype, don’t fly with machismo and muscles to show your nudity, be tender , modest and courteous and she discerns what she desires, so stride charily.
Gentle ladies will add you on interpals for language exchange, you men shoot to flirting, do what she is fond of not what you covet, she wants pen pals not boyfriend. Keep arms akimbo with her pace you will reach your destiny on time. On social networking sites she make out you will be friends so walk the talk and keep the tempo, as you mind your language so you will walk into her heart.
Line app (SNS) she adds you this minute the next minute you cry for love, look at yourself. Who is stranger? keep a low profile talk to her kindheartedly like a doves coo, soothingly like seaside breeze and she will close her eyes and come like a penguin, Kakao talk (SNS) she asks you to join, remember the outings and coffee conversations, she can make coffee at home and she came to you so that you can have the coffee talk like Kakao talk so be temperate, gentle like a dolphin, swim alongside not beneath or over, neither in frontage nor at the rear.
The movie actors are no heroes, they act fiction and walks a directors road, talks a scripts dialogue, you are a hero, act natural and the gardens and parks and the wonderful nature outings fill the fiction with reality. Did I say money can’t buy love or friends, yeah, you humility can lead you places be gentle and humble I will sing always and pen when I dream like today.
You over speed and the communication is cut short , the respite is you to blame, the vehicle of affection is stuck in the mud of your talk, so gauge what you share and try to know what she wishes, do not ask for rain when sunshine is high and do not say dusk when its dawn of communication.
Don’t ask for whatsapp in the first day of communication? What is your intention? Even a novice in communication will know! for you will be kicked out soon the same way you came the best way is to make out which way the dove flies to and not which way the cat jumps.
However, girls don’t be rude when they over speed, you will are piling anger, slow them down, you are gentle , teach them to walk , teach them to communicate, if they are arrogant or unconcerned leave them alone and walk your way, you are a river of life ‘tributaries’ will join you and make you a princess, don’t hate for no reason for you will be hated in return, don’t love at momentum for you will thrown at lightning rapidity. Measure your words and don’t use words that sound rude, like… ‘but why you called?’ ‘what’ what do you want? , ‘who are you?’ ‘I am not interested’ and more words maketh communication like clothes maketh man and woman.
This thoughts came to my mind midnight and I penned it at that time, its just my opinion, any comments or additions…subtraction are my take…drop them firstname.lastname@example.org
Saturday, 23 May 2015
Friendship, deduced from friends, friend +ship - a friend out in the sea tows your burden, in the wake and ensures you cross over the sea without a bridge to the shores of joy. Camaraderie the closeness we have in our social circles. Friends are like stars, they shine but always not around many afar while few are close by, we should strive to build friendship which last for ages (reality) and not for online virtuality. The new media smothers friendship and gives rise to virtual friendship which is like mist.
Virtual friendship has limits, just a flirting feeling, synthetic smile. Remember a friend is real when you are existent, keep at heart and mind too, be selfless, be truthful, and furnish your companionship freely. A true friend denies self comfort. If having a friend means death then resurrection would be getting a genuine friend. That's friendship. True friendship has no limits,is timeless and priceless. True friendship is denying yourself calm to provide a 'kidney' to a needy friend, being liberal like the sun , shinning to all good and wicked, forgiving those who wrong you, and walking to your enemy to forgive.
Friends are like stars shining forth for the starry skies, and twinkling for the crickets and fireflies, friendship is a garden and friends are the flowers who make the garden a home for bees and butterflies providing nectar and home and work place for insects.
Connect and communicate online and make sure you make friends and not enemies.
The world would be at peace if we value friends who create friendship.